{"id":1057,"date":"2012-02-05T21:43:28","date_gmt":"2012-02-05T15:43:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/?p=1057"},"modified":"2012-02-05T21:43:28","modified_gmt":"2012-02-05T15:43:28","slug":"on-being-a-tiger-dad-with-a-nod-to-amy-chuas-the-battle-hymn-of-the-tiger-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/2012\/02\/05\/on-being-a-tiger-dad-with-a-nod-to-amy-chuas-the-battle-hymn-of-the-tiger-mother\/","title":{"rendered":"On Being a &quot;Tiger Dad,&quot; With a Nod to Amy Chua&#039;s &quot;The Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother&quot;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So I&#8217;m having a little more sympathy for the famous &#8220;Tiger Mom&#8221; Amy Chua (author of\u00a0<em>The Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother)<\/em> of late, as I&#8217;m now trying to work every day on teaching my daughter to read. She attends a Montessori school, with nice teachers and much encouragement, but it seems to me a fairly relaxed, easy forum. I&#8217;m tough on Lili, drill her, cajole her, and sometimes argue with her as I try to get her to spell &#8220;skate,&#8221; &#8220;gate,&#8221; or &#8220;butterfly.&#8221; But she&#8217;s improving noticeably lately, and is at the stage where she&#8217;s now reading entire sentences. I won&#8217;t make any claims of her being a prodigy or genius (a la those learning-scam commercials on Noggin: &#8220;Your baby can read!&#8221; &#8220;Your baby can operate a forklift!&#8221;), as I think she&#8217;s at a typical reading-development stage for a five-year-old. But I know she&#8217;s responding to my disciplined approach, even if we&#8217;re not practicing spelling\/reading five hours a day. But Chua&#8217;s book sounds interesting, and I can see why it&#8217;s stirred a debate about parenting. Being demanding is itself hard work, but I think it does have a tendency to pay off, as long as it doesn&#8217;t backfire. And here&#8217;s a photo of my little monkey\/genius, relaxing in between her hours of rote memorization drills on how to spell &#8220;egregious&#8221; and &#8220;martinet.&#8221;<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1062\" title=\"1LiliFrame\" src=\"http:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/1LiliFrame1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I&#8217;m having a little more sympathy for the famous &#8220;Tiger Mom&#8221; Amy Chua (author of\u00a0The Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother) of late, as I&#8217;m now trying to work every day on teaching my daughter to read. She attends &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/2012\/02\/05\/on-being-a-tiger-dad-with-a-nod-to-amy-chuas-the-battle-hymn-of-the-tiger-mother\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1057","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1057","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1057"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1057\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1057"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1057"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/williamjcobb.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1057"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}